Yes, it's true. 131 days to go until wedding day. At times, the days fly by and i'm happy when it's the weekend again, Timothy is here and we can see each other. At times, the days drag and i'm impatient. Time to forget both of us living in separate cities and separate places. Time to eat meals together, talk each evening freely without phones and just spend time puttering around our house together. We are both looking forward to our married life.
Realizing of course that there are lots and lots of adjustments, decisions and times of ups and downs to be experienced. And to be honest, sometimes all the decisions leading up to a wedding day seem so...superfluous but at the same time, they are part of making the day special. So sometimes i'm torn - is the exact colour of paper really necessary and essential to making things perfect? No... and that puts things in perspective! But it is a good exercise going through all the little and big details, making plans and decisions together. I like making decisions together. It's much nicer than being on your own - to share your thoughts and ideas, bounce things off one another and work through things and come out on the end joined closer by the experience. Oh, dear, time to stop since i am waxing a bit deep and ?meaningful.
2 comments:
You're going to love married life - it's wonderful :) I remember that sense of desperation towards the end when I was so tired of saying goodbye to Tom at the end of an evening together, when all we wanted to do was curl up together and fall asleep without saying goodbye. I remember crying on the drive home because I ached so badly to just be with him.
Just being together and not having to leave is so wonderful....I'm so happy for you, lovee :)
Time to update? There are less days now, I am sure. What is the count now? mom
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